1. Chances are they’ve had a LOT of cock. So much so that they won’t look at sleeping with you as anything special.
2. They’re not as fertile – chances are you could be running into fertility problems. At age 35 they’re 80% less fertile than they were in their 20s.
3. Their looks are rapidly tanking and are about to hit the wall, if they haven’t done so already.
4. They have proved that they aren’t good relationship, marriage or mother material – if they haven’t been able to settle down by now, there’s probably a massive issue.
5. They’re carrying a lot of baggage. Emotional, ex-boyfriends… the list goes on.
6. They’re not as likely to have a strong emotional connection with you – brain maturity for women finishes by 25 and for men by the late 20′s. Your brain mellows out after that, making it harder to have those super-strong emotional experiences which can help you bond.
7. She’s had so much alpha cock that if you have one little reversion to beta you’ll be gone in her eyes. She’ll never realize or admit just how bad this problem is.
No need to tread any further than # 1 the next time you decide to pedestalise, oneitis or be nervous in the presence of the village bicycle. Remember a woman need a man like a fish need a…..
Over 30 is definitely a different world.
Searching through that age range, you’re a whole lot more likely to run into a bitter checklister who is trying to get the same thing that the 20 somethings are –”Mr. Big”, except their standards are higher and what they have to offer is less than it was in their 20s.
Hey, hey!
N.B. The two women this doesn’t apply for are ‘Inside A Woman’s Mind’ and ‘Audacious Amateur Blogger’. Any man would be lucky to date them and revel in their femininity.
Awww! *melts* That was very very cute. (And very true as well.
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Errrrr. Cute?!
The Alpha kinda cute!
Oxymoron.
In my view, Alphas can do or say things that are cute, without being less of an Alpha. It’s when things get cutesy it gets lapdogging, and that’s aaaaall for Betas. Could be the languagebarrier, though.
Cute is just a standard word women say about everything. The problem is that they’ll say attractive and repulsive stuff are both cute.
I meant it as the good kinda cute. Not the ‘Aww, the odd boy next door bought me flowers, that’s … Cute. :/’ sense that some might use it as, but the ‘Wow, that was kinda hot *melt*’ kinda cute.
Oh, the beauty and charm of languages, grammar and the perception there of, when from two different countries.
Well it was a *melting* kind of cute, I can live with that.
Good.
“Oh, the beauty and charm of languages, grammar and the perception there of, when from two different countries.”
Nah that’s just the problem when you give a compliment on the internet. Real human interaction is much better. You don’t have to explain as much
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Oh, absolutely. Mimic, the look in an eye and so, is quite litterally priceless when flirting, bantering or just paying a compliment. But I still do love the differences between languages.
Regarding number four, I don’t think you can assume someone dating in their 30s or higher is necessarily damaged goods. I’ve heard this before from people in their 20s. Life doesn’t end at 30 but sometimes relationships do.
Then again, I’m writing from the perspective of an older divorced guy.
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I think #6 is a huge issue for men and women. Older people just don’t bond as tightly as the younger ones. There’s no way girls get all googly eyed in love for you after they have graduated college and lived on their own for a few years.
Bookmarked as a healthy reminder, though most of us red-pillers know this intuitively.
Yes. Have all the sex you want with a 30 or over woman. Just don’t consider her for marriage.
I always figured 25 was the “expiration date” for women…thanks to evil science my feelings have been confirmed.
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“5. They’re carrying a lot of baggage. Emotional, ex-boyfriends… the list goes on.”
Modern Womyn have had SO many ‘boyfriends’, one-night stands, hook-ups, ‘friends with benefits’, etc., etc. during their teens and twenties, that by the time they’re in their thirties they are no longer carrying “baggage”…they are carrying FREIGHT!
Leave them sitting ‘on the shelf’ — they are beyond their expiration date, and it’s where they belong.
My argument — look at their divorce rates. A man is much better off (and safer) GHOW.
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