Waitress Pickup

I just had a coffee with a friend. On arriving at the cafe, I locked eyes with a really cute blonde waitress.

We stared at each other smiling while she seated me. She wasn’t the waitress that ended up serving us, but through the rest of our coffee I held long, powerful eye contact with her across the cafe a couple of times. I also made sure blondie saw me bantering with our waitress and making her laugh so that blondie could see I was cool and having a good time. As we finished our coffee and asked for the bill, blondie came over to clean the table next to us.

I turned around to look and smile at her and said “they’re keeping you busy”.
“Hah yeah waiting tables” she said.
“What’s your name?” I asked.
“Mila” she replied (same real name as the ‘Mila’ I previously wrote about, so keeping the name).
“I’m George”.

My waitress came back and Mila was busy serving other people so I didn’t have the chance to get her number before leaving. My friend and I said our goodbyes and I waited outside the cafe, in full view of where I’d first seen Mila, but with my back to the cafe and writing a couple of messages on my phone.

After a couple of minutes I turned around. Mila was there, where I’d first seen her, and staring straight at me. I didn’t want to get her in trouble at work but would kick myself if I didn’t get this done. I made a phone with my hand.

“What?” she mouthed.

I pointed at her and made the phone sign again. I did that one more time so she was completely clear on what I was asking, then walked back to the cafe.

“I need to get one of these” I said, taking a cafe business card while sliding her my own.

Instead of taking it, she grabbed a pen, wrote her number on it and gave it back.

“See you Mila” I said, walking away.

I plan on seeing her very soon.

To be continued…

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6 Responses to Waitress Pickup

  1. So, which do men prefer? Getting a number or giving a number?

    • Gotta be getting a number. Game is about being in control; wishing upon a star that maybe she gets around to calling you isn’t the best foundation for starting a relationship.

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  3. Sherlock

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  4. girls in the service industry are notoriously difficult to close since they get hit on all day. so you got lucky here. but good FR. typical “waitress/bartender” game involves-
    -become a regular
    -get cool with one of the waiters or male bartender.
    -approach.

    not saying that that will ALWAYS be successful, but it’ll help you out. also, most of the time, the female servers are usually “serving” some dude that works in the kitchen. lol.

  5. Like this. Keep us posted.

    My buddy and I go to a local bar/dance place and have had some success lately with some of the scantily-clad shotgirls. The other night, one of them told us she talks to us so much because we’re the only guys who actually give her a hard time. Waitress game is all about being different; their options are so plentiful you absolutely cannot afford blending into the beta bunch…

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