No matter what a man does, he cannot improve his physical attractiveness, his personality or his interactions with women. If he wants to get a girlfriend and he’s never had any luck, he should join some hobby clubs. This will automatically fix the issues with his social skills that he has had for 20+ or 30+ years.
Can you believe this shit both men and women are pedalling? I am not exaggerating any of this. Read this Jezebel post and the comments underneath to see it in reality.
When it comes down to it, anything that’s being done by one person can be learned by another. Hence why learning to be successful with women is a skill that can be learned. Just as you an study the best minds to learn the theory to become a better architect/economist/etc, you can become better with women. Saying that you can’t learn this is akin to saying that every interaction you have with a woman has a predetermined outcome. It doesn’t matter what you say, how you act or what you do. It can’t change.
What a moronic thing to say. As Heartiste recently explained:
If you break down the game of Naturals, you’ll learn that their maneuvers and tactics and strategies, far from being indefinable essences that only a very few lucky can lay claim to, are in fact identical to the blueprints of learned game.
For those who say it’s impossible to improve your attractiveness, let’s break down the categories one at a time.
1) Physical Attractiveness
One of my first posts months ago was about men could improve their attractiveness. Don’t be fat. Get muscular. Whiten your teeth. Improve your skin. Improve your posture. Wear nice, well-fitted clothes. Work on your eye contact.
What’s that I hear the anti-game mob screaming? None of this counts as game?
Morons. Of course it does. Why do they only want fat slobs to be the ones who are trying (and failing) to improve their appeal to women?
Any woman can improve her attractiveness to the opposite sex. Hence why they spend so much time doing their hair, makeup, perfecting their outfits etc. Guess what. Men can look better as well. Not like one whinger on Jezebel who wrote “the money you spend on a dating coach or becoming more hygienic/better dressed will not make you look physically better. Only plastic surgery can do that.” What a load of shit. Have a look at these TV-show transformations and tell me only plastic surgery makes you look physically better.
A lot of the Manosphere covers working out because of the impact it has on your attractiveness to women, as well as the way it makes you feel about yourself. Check out the fitness section at Nexxt Level Up for some good recent stuff.
2) Personality Attractiveness
A man who works on himself will become a far more interesting person to women. Can anyone seriously disagree with this? I’ve written about how to do this. Read. Travel. Study. Grow and develop.
What’s that, I hear the anti-game mob screaming. This doesn’t count as game?
Of course it does. Morons. It’s part of improving your attractiveness to women.
What’s that you protest? You shouldn’t do things just to try and attract women? Well why the hell not? Good on your for adding value to the world and your personal life with whatever thing you’re doing. Sure beats sitting at home watching TV for hours on end and wasting away your life.
3) Interactions With Women
A lot of anti-gamers scream that you can’t improve your interactions with women.
Morons. Why the hell not?
It is widely recognised that:
- You can improve your interactions with people generally- How To Win Friends and Influence People.
- You can improve your interactions with people in your workplace – 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
- You can improve your interactions with your spouse- Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.
So you can improve your relationship with absolutely anyone except for when you’re dating? Give me a break. Morons.
Even when I recounted the story on Jezebel about how a bootcamp made me go from having kissed one girl in a club in my entire life to 6 in one night, a guy said that didn’t count. You can’t please some people.
I’ve shared part of my own story about how dating coaching has helped me, and also shared stories about my students. The woman who writes Woman and the Dragon posts another story by a guy on exactly how much dating coaching helped him:
I signed up for a one week live in class with PUATraining in Austin, TX. It has been liberating to say the least. To know what I am doing in any human interaction is a gift from God himself, but especially to be able to guide the direction of a conversation with a woman so that it is a win/win situation for both of us. It is empowering in a way that words can’t describe for a guy who oozed Beta like a lesion on the skin.
You can enhance your physical attractiveness, your personality, and your interactions with women. If you have doubted this up to now, it’s time to change your perspective.
Grown up, mature people would do well to heed the words of Keynes, who said:
When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do sir?
If you’ve been pedalling the line that game doesn’t work, it’s time to be mature. Acknowledge that it can improve men and benefit their relationships with women and change your opinion.
Update: Heartiste on the matter.
Update 2: Krauser is living proof that this stuff works.