Inspired by the sadly now defunct University of Man’s 100 Words of Hate.
I utterly HATE the bitchiness of men and women who are rude and nasty for no reason whatsoever. I hate when their it’s done suddenly, out of the blue in a professional context, and you’d always gotten on well with them prior to that. I fucking hate how you’re caught off guard and restrained because of your reputation that you can’t just go nuclear and shut them up. My response? To shun them from my reality. To ignore them. To refuse to make eye contact with them. To act like they don’t exist. 3 men and 3 women have earned this right in the past 24 months. These psychopaths can continue live a meaningless, twisted, insecure and pathetic existence in the miserable hell holes of their heads while you forget about them and move on. That is, until the day where their name will come up and you will have the opportunity to shut down everyone’s opinion of them and destroy an opportunity they had really wanted, and you will relish every moment of it.
Rant over. Embrace forgiveness. Much love people!
I have been in the corporate world for 28 years. You are right. You have to be the better man and move on. But usually these people kill team dynamics, create bottlenecks to progress or other problems besides pissing everyone off. And come feedback time, these are negatives that can be brought to the attention of the bitch’s’ boss. Boss men like results, but not if the bitch is alienating everyone else. In business, karma will bite the bitch.
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Exactly and you’re perfectly right: Those motherfuckers always catch you off guard as if they can smell your shields are down…
Ricky Raw wrote an excellent article on appropriate retaliation addressing shame not guilt in the asshole attackers:
http://therawness.com/hecklers-part-1-a-discussion-of-guilt-and-shame/
They deserve 100 words of hate every single day!
Interesting points and link, thanks for that. It’s been hilarious watching the reaction of one person I’ve deleted from my existence. They are agitated, angry to the point of being physically aggressive and now constantly trying to get my attention. Little piece of shit.
I think the perfect response was by W. C. Fields, “I never hold a grudge; I get even with the son of a bitch and then I forget about it.”
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