George: With the blessing of Professor Mentu, I am reposting the best of the University of Man. I will be posting past posts under the name ‘international seduction’, so they are easily accessible. Enjoy.
Bottom-feeding scum sucking Cory Catfish, thy name is beta. Thank you for cleaning the algae and fecal remains of bigger, stronger, faster fish from the pond of society. You are the homeless guy I give my leftovers to, packaged in a glossy takeout box from a restaurant you could never afford. You, beta, are the malleable putty that fills the karmic gap between what she wants and what she deserves. If ever there was an exultant scavenger, a happy beggar, or a willful fool foraging through the rotting leftovers of discarded femdom like a soon-to-be-roadkill raccoon, it’s you.
Thank you for your service.
A man with options would never put a ring on a finger that’s been wrapped around a dozen cocks. A man with options would never pay the ultimate price of commit for a born again virgin fucktoy. A man with options would never let his son’s first home be a womb that has seen more traffic than I-35 during rush hour. A man with options would never allow the first kiss his newborn son receives to come from lips that have hosted lotsa cocka. A man with options would never let his son’s first nourishment come from breasts that can be viewed on any number of cell phone cameras. A man with options would never let his son’s first throne be the lap of a woman who has been passed around like a blunt at a frat party. A man with options would never be a dickstand for a woman who squandered her youth and beauty on the men who respected her the least. A man with options would never consider being the last man standing at the end of the long line of conquests she racked up while being the Grand Marshal of a rather impressive cock parade.
Do men with options pass up on whores because of Christian ethics? Sometimes. Do men with options pass up on whores because a promiscuous lifestyle stunts a woman’s ability to bond with her husband and children? I reckon. Do men with options avoid committing to whores because of social pride? I certainly hope so. But there’s one gloriously simple, easy to define and even easier to defend reason why men with options do not marry whores:
They don’t have to.
Beta males have four primary deficits when it comes to making sound relationship decisions, which leads them to permanently settle down with Gangbang Barbie after the rest of us are done with her.
1) Their inability to identify a whore/slut due to lack of experience.
Thanks to a lack of experience with women, betas believe that a whore is a filthy girl who will sleep with anybody. When their pea-sized brains conjure up the idea of a whore, they imagine a woman who stops a red light, sees a man waiting at a bus stop, and has an unbelievable urge to put the car in park and go bang him. Betas think a whore is a girl who goes out to the bar four nights per week and bangs four different men.
Dead wrong.
With this definition of whore, it’s no wonder betas defend women – they never see a whore. But in reality, whores are selective. In fact, they’re probably the most selective women in the mating market. The Art of Whore is displayed by women who harness their sexual power and unleash it with stunning accuracy on the men at the top of the social hierarchy – often in a serially monogamous fashion (with a few “mistakes” along the way for good measure). Wake up, beta. That nice girl in your social group who has a different boyfriend every three or four months on average, has casual hookups on vacation, and has that “special friend” who keeps her warm at night between boyfriends is a two-bit worthless whore.
“But wait, Mentu! Most girls do that these days!”
Now you’re getting it. Walk with me.
Whore is not about a number; it’s about her decision-making abilities and the value she assigns to sexual congress. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, so the men she lets through the gates – regardless of how many or how few – tells you everything you need to know about her relationship value. I don’t care if she’s slept with 5 men or 50 men; her sexual past reveals her relationship worth and ability to make sound decisions.
Take for instance a healthy 28 year old woman. In my experience, your average American woman has had anywhere between 12 and 23 sexual partners by this time. Let’s call it an average of 17. A reasonable man would not assume that all 17 men dumped her, or that she dumped all 17; a myriad of reasons, situations, emotions and circumstances led her to this place. So what does this tell us? It tells us that a number of men just had fun with her (promiscuity), she had to bounce a number of men after she opened her womb to them (bad decision making), and a number of men sampled a mini relationship with her for a while and decided not to keep her around (low value).
So, beta, which of those three traits – promiscuity, bad decision making, and low value – would you like to have instilled in your children? Which of those traits do you believe will make her an excellent wife? Which of these traits do you believe will not increase your likelihood of being cheated on or landing in divorce court? Can you see yourself waking up in the morning, rolling over, looking at her and thinking “Thank God I’ve committed to a worthless whore who has a 15 year long track record of making bad decisions?”
Of course not. But this leads us to the 2nd primary deficit of the beta:
2) Their susceptibility to shaming language.
Betas cower in fear and quickly acquiesce when confronted with shaming language. “I’m not like that anymore”, “You can’t judge me”, and “A woman’s worth is not decided by her sexual past” seem to be the go-to responses for women who find themselves in the awkward situation of justifying why they’ve banged more men than can be comfortably seated in a small Family Diner.
For the record, the correct responses are “yes you are”, “yes I can”, and when it comes to marriage, “yes it is.”
Does promiscuity make her a bad employee? Nope. Does it make her a bad friend? Nah. Does it make her an evil person who is likely to knock over a liquor store and steal a getaway car? Not at all. Does a promiscuous past mean she can’t do good in the community and make profound societal contributions? Of course not. Does it make her a high-risk marriage partner and a shitty role model for your children in a society built around the family unit instead of the “it takes a village” approach? According to the church, the Centers for Disease Control, your buddy who laughs at you behind your back, biological evidence, gender anthropologists, a growing number of psychologists, your own gut instincts, and yours truly, yes it most certainly does.
It always amazes me how betas will agree with a woman that her past education reveals her dedication to scholarly pursuits, her past work experience reveals her quest to improve her business acumen, her past payment history reveals her credit worthiness, her past workout routine reveals her desire for a healthy lifestyle, and her past volunteer efforts reveal her heart of gold, but her past sexual habits reveal absolutely nothing.
That, my beta friend, is The Art of Whore. If you buy in to that shit, you deserve whatever ill may befall you.
3) Their unnatural dedication to the female definition of “fairness.”
Here’s where the rubber meets the road for bottom-feeding beta males. We’ve all heard the statement “It’s not fair that a woman who sleeps around is a whore, but men who sleep around are studs.” There’s been more than enough digital ink spilled on this topic in the manosphere, so I won’t go in to it. Everybody knows it’s easy to be a whore, but hard to be a player – and society doesn’t award trophies for doing easy shit. It’s not a double standard; it’s two different standards for two different genders with two different barriers to sexual entry and two different sets of risk factors.
But forget that for a moment. For the sake of this article, let’s assume that the woman’s statement is true. That’s right, let’s assume for a moment that there is an unfair evil double standard afoot.
What the fuck do you care? If you’re a beta male looking for marriage, it’s not your job to be fair – this is your life, not a general assembly at the UN. Your job is to find the best mother for your children that you possibly can. It doesn’t matter if you banged 5,000 women on camera last night; you need to find the most competent, capable, qualified, trustworthy, physically and emotionally stable woman you possibly can to help raise your children. Let her worry about your past and whether or not she thinks you’re qualified to be their father, and you focus on her qualifications.
Come to think of it, that’s actually quite fair, wouldn’t you say?
4) Their lack of options.
When it comes to liaising with whores, Alphas are volunteers, and betas are voluntolds. The Art of Whore is not lost on the Alpha male – they volunteer to use them for what they’re good for, then pass them off to betas who are voluntold to put a ring on their finger.
Beta, your lack of options is making you weak, distorting your judgment, and may eventually land your pansy ass in divorce court. The Art of Whore is real, and women work to better their craft every day. What have you done lately besides make excuses for her?
Women proficient in The Art of Whore get what they want: A decade-long ride on the cock carousel with no consequences, then a willing hapless beta with open arms, an open mind, and an open wallet to cushion their landing and finance their recovery.
As long as you’re standing there ready, willing and able, I honestly can’t say that I blame them for taking you up on your generous offer.
George: Our next post in 2 days will examine how to beat getting Friend-Zoned, once and for all.
its less and less betas nowadays – i just wonder what will do current male generation over 30…
most of my friends are more or less aware of sluthood
This should be required reading for any man contemplating marriage. A classic and one of my favorites from U of M. Thanks for re-posting.
Pure gold… Thanks!!
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Thanks for reposting. I always liked this one.
“Let her worry about your past and whether or not she thinks you’re qualified to be their father, and you focus on her qualifications.”
Exactly. Both people’s pasts matter.
“Everybody knows it’s easy to be a whore, but hard to be a player – and society doesn’t award trophies for doing easy shit.”
There you have it. It comes down to the degree of difficulty. The whore and the player both sleep around, but they go about it in different ways. The whore basically has to show up and say yes; the player has to know how to act, what to say, and be ready to move. Much different.
That’s all it comes down to. More men need to know this.
“Betas think a whore is a girl who goes out to the bar four nights per week and bangs four different men”. I don’t care if she’s slept with 5 men or 50 men.
So what do you call a woman who goes out every night to a bar and fucks a different guy every time she goes out? And would you ever marry a girl who at 28 had slept with 50 guys?
Man, I know I took the dive into marriage too quick… At least my wife had only slept with… wait forit… One woman before meeting me. Luckily she likes cock more than pussy.
I heard one of those lines this last weekend.
“Don’t judge me.” was said to me when I wasn’t even talking or even acknowledging her presence. I love projection.
if you werent talking to her or acknowleding her presence why did she think you were judging her?
What would give her the idea you had judged her.
I totally believe in projection. Most of what you have said on my blog I look at as projection. However, there is a reason you think them, Was there a reason this woman felt she was being judged? Did you call her a slut? Did you tell her it was because she did something shes was not good enough for you (those are all judgements).
Dont judge me.. I mean, it is a forward statement. You can’t tell people what to do or how to feel right? So it is a worthless statement really. Why are you judging, what are you judging me for… what do you think etc. means (as 3MM makes very clear his idea of what sleeping around means).
Do you judge women? Equally.
I am beta and I am soon to marry a whore she has me real good and I love her more then I can explain she stole my heart very quickly when we met and has cheated on me repeatedly since she used to be a model and a stripper but now she has gained a good deal of weight and is pretty banged out so now she wants to get married and be supported
I love that she is banged out and I am pretty sure she will cheat again I even told her as long as she stays heart faithful to me she can play as much as she wants I think as she gains weight she has become more of an attention whore seeking to be told shes hot so she trades sex for compliments now
Why is this even an issue? If these whorish women are alpha cast aways who cares who they end up with?
“Everybody knows it’s easy to be a whore, but hard to be a player – and society doesn’t award trophies for doing easy shit.”
It is easy to do both. I have recently found that s few men that I know that are self proclaimed ‘alphas’, and ‘players’ have got it all wrong. Sleeping with the most unattractive easiest target in the bar does not make you a player. It makes you a candidate for a nasty STD.
I fit to a tee……..I am being voluntold to put a ring on her finger……she is 30′s well past her prime she was a knockout stripper and model she has gained weight now 3 kids by 3 different guys lots of male friends and has cheated on me several times……and her cock carousel is in the 60′s but I am madly in love with her I have already agreed to her having a fuck buddy so shes not bored when I am at work and we are getting married soon
LoL you’ve got it made
How does a woman who hasn’t slept with anyone differentiate herself from the women that have been around? At times I go out with my friend who is looking to hook up and I have no intention of doing so. How to attract the right guys?
Really great question Curious, missed this from a while ago.
You’ll naturally be a bit more demure than girls who’ve slept around. You still need to be attractive, but simply not slutty.
I’ve previously written that you need to FACILITATE: If you like a guy (and going out with him once or twice or kissing him you probably do), encourage him to keep contacting you. Write back to his messages. Ask him questions. Make him feel good about himself.
http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com/2013/01/10/the-art-of-whore-why-betas-marry-leftovers/
Another post here:
http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com/2012/08/31/how-can-women-increase-their-attractiveness/
Wow. This is quite possibly the best article currently available on the entire internet. No joke.
if your truly beta it doesnt matter how used up a woman is actually the more used and pathetic the better for us even better if shes still on the cock carousel getting banged out by alphas every day we love getting the dumped on used leftovers each time she comes home after the walk of shame missing her panties cause she got played by some alpha PUA then its time for me to start kissin ass and comforting my wife to be because I am very much in love with her and possibly her new baby on the way so you keep banging them out and we will gladly marry whats left pregnant or with a few kids even
I guess I am beta……I love my wife to be shes rode to carousel for a long time racked up lots of guys that pump and dumped her now we are getting married and shes cuckolded me a couple of times already and I am sure it will be an on going thing from being played so much these girls keep guys around all the time so occasionally they end up getting played again even when they get married we just need to be there for her when shes barefoot missing her panties wondering what happened last night
I like this Beta Guy. Yo, bro, let’s hang out sometimes. Tell your wife she can come too.
Sure thing anytime
Honestly you can’t win being a woman, whore or virgin men are never happy. This is the most disgusting sexist drivel I’ve ever read.
I’m straight up in saying that BOTH men and women shouldn’t be sexually experienced prior to getting married. Of course in the real world that can be extremely difficult. But hey, we can try right.
I love a very experienced woman
I agree whore or virgin a woman has it hard
The best women are the more experienced ones and all women need love it shouldnt be about how many guys had them and some women are just easier to bed then others my wife to be is very easy and always ready shes had lots of different partners and lots of fun with them also she likes things to be spontaneous so shes had lots of strangers and one night stands
She has been judged a lot by previous guys and they played her a lot once they got the goods they dumped her I have even had to pick her up on some nights or mornings barefoot shoes in hand panties missing cause some guy played her and put her out when he was done
A couple of them told her they would marry her then played her and left her with 2 kids
I have never judged her and I will be glad to marry her leftovers or not
thank you, knowing that people like you exist in the world gives me some hope
What is a man without options to do though?
Say you’re not an alpha stud and most chicks will not look at you. You are not very high on the social ladder and you know there’s very little room for improvement. This fits a large fraction of men I’d say.
In this situation, you have only three options: 1. Marry a whore, 2. Marry an unattractive but quality woman, 3. Remain permanently without a relationship.
For many guys, option 1 is humiliating, option 3 is unthinkable, and option 2 is becoming increasingly less plausible as even the most unattractive girls nowadays are becoming increasingly more promiscuous. So what’s the right answer?
I can tell you one thing my wife to be is a leftover according to this but lwt me tell you practice makes perfect and shes had lots and lots of practice so when I am with her shes like a pro and shes very easy too amd happy to finally be getting married so she does her best which is really great and she does it a lot so I thank all the alphas that taught her so well how to perfect her skills
ps-
my dad has always been “alpha” and my mom was an amazing wife and she is definitly not a whore and he did not appreciate her, he treated her like shit. so all you alpha males out there..you aren’t that fucking great. you’re not what women really want, you only get girls for the first few years while we are young and too stupid to realize what arrogant jackasses you are. the reason why we date “betas” later is not because it’s all we can get or it’s all they can get is us….it’s because we’ve finally grown up enough to see whats important in life, and what a real man is…and thats a beta!!! wow…i feel so much better now!! why the would i let some stupid jackass guy that wrote a a horrible article make me feel bad about myself? i would never want to date or marry a jerk like that anyways becasue then i would wind up in divorce court like my mom did…i just read some things that some of you “betas” wrote above and i just want to say thankyou. you are the real men. let the other guys run around pounding their fists into their chests like cavemen…it still doesn’t make them men. my dad is one of those and i feel bad for him, he’s alone because he doesn’t know how to treat women. GO BETAS!
The best women are the ones with the most experience and after they’ve been dumped on by all the alpha they make great wives
My wife has several friends with benefits and she loves having the freedom of goin out ha ing fun and then I pick her up after their done playing shes usually missing her panties and shes barefoot and I love it
AND i might as well add…when my alpha male father’s crazy gf left, and he was sad and alone…who was there for him? who forgave him? me…the woman with a slutty past..the kind of woman that alpha males apparently judge and don’t see as decent human beings. after all, he is my dad and i will always love him even if he is a jerk. so i hope that none of you alpha males end up all alone with nothing but a cat to keep you warm at night becasue your wife left you like my dad has. if you do, with any luck you will at least have a daughter that loves you unconditionally because she doesn’t have her head so far up her ass as you do. ( and yes..that comment is directed at who ever wrote this original article). with love, from a former slut