George: I have previously said that women shouldn’t put out early if they want men to stick around and take them seriously. For stating the obvious I copped a stream of insults and abuse from do-gooders. At the same time, I received strong acknowledgement from men and women who know this to be a simple fact of life. Sexually promiscuous women can whinge, whine and complain about what I’ve said all they want. It doesn’t change how men feel about women who sleep around.
Men who want to find a woman for a long-term relationship or marriage (a codified LTR) are put off by histories of a slutty past. The woman who has given herself freely to men before him proves that old aphorism that it makes no sense for a man to pay for the pussy that was handed over no strings attached to other men when it was younger, hotter, tighter. You don’t seriously invest in a rode hard and tossed away wet pussy; instead, you ride it harder and wear it out a little more, then look for fresher pussy that doesn’t need its 60,000 cockas maintenance as soon as you sign the dotted line…
Therefore, when a long-loyal husband finds out his wife rode the cock carousel, even if discovered to have occurred in a prior life of hers, his respect for her drops a notch. His love for her shrinks three sizes.
His honed beta ability and predilection to put her on a pedestal and adore her suffers a grievous diminishment. She has, in a word, become a less worthy woman in his eyes. And, likewise, in the eyes of all men, because men, like women, share universal preferences for certain types of mates…
The haters are apoplectic. Their splutter is the stuff of delicious slo-mo videos. “But but but,” they will protest, “I can be slutty and still land a man! Any man who leaves me because I’m a slut doesn’t deserve me!” Deservin’s got nothin’ to do with it, honey. It’s biomechanical turtles all the way down.
You don’t understand how to get better. Your sluthood doesn’t make you a better person or a suitable wife. See, you’ve developed a taste for alpha dick, sorry to say.
For a reformed slut, settling for the man who was willing to marry you is a hard road to walk. Because you will know you once slept with hotter men — better bodies, better looking faces, longer and thicker penises. You will know some of the men you slept with before pressed every one of your attraction triggers. You’ll always remember the one or two men you slept with before who were so hot, so good looking, and you were so horny and wanted them so badly, that you went ahead and slept with them, and you didn’t care about the consequences. You didn’t care about your future husband. At the time you cared only about yourself… Instead of serving yourself, be quiet. Serve your God and your husband. Walk in humility and contrition.
No guy wants to date a whore. No guy likes the fact that his girlfriend (or potential girlfriend) has fucked lots of guys… there are a few interesting things to note:
1. Promiscuous men will be lenient in their expectations.
2. You can’t change your number, but you can change your attitude.
3. Don’t tell him how many guys you’ve slept with.
All men are pigs. Yes, even I am a pig. All we want is to have sex with the least amount of effort. We will say anything you want to hear in order to get it. Understand that before sex, you have all the power, but afterwards you have very little. A guy who was jumping over himself to hang out with you will be more nonchalant after sex, like he doesn’t even care.
The only way a man will value you is if you made him put in a lot of investment before sex. The more work he puts in, the less he can rationalize that you were meaningless to him, and the more likely he will continue to pursue because he considers you above the rest. Each man you have sex with that doesn’t call you back will kill a part of your soul, and it’s your job to guard against that. Only have sex with men who earn it.
One last thing. A guy will use every trick in the book not to use a condom. If he tries, he has probably done that on who knows how many women, and those women have done the same on who knows how many men. Don’t turn your body into a petri dish.