Many unmarried young women with an N count greater than one or two will argue vociferously that their N doesn’t matter and should not be taken into account by men who are considering them as potential wives. But the reality is that the known male distaste for seconds, or twentieths, as the case may be, is well-justified in terms of an increased probability of future infidelity as well as the fact that his wife will likely compare him unfavorably to one or more of her previous lovers:
Many women are looking back with longing on past relationships, admitting sex was better with their ex than their current partner. 53 percent of all married women with previous sexual experience had the best sex of their lives in a previous relationship. And obviously, the higher her N, the greater the possibility that this is the case. So, if you’ve married a woman who wasn’t a virgin, there is a one-in-two chance that she’s fantasizing about her past lovers. And the more experience she’s had, the more likely that is the case.
Feminists and their enablers have slowly shaved off the value of marriage for men. Marriage for men no longer means:
- Being the legally and socially recognized head of the household.
- An expectation of regular sex.
- Legal rights to children.
- Lifetime commitment.
As each new bit has been shaved away, men have had the choice of either accepting debased marriage at face value or walking away…
There’s just one more small thing. It took her so long to find you that you can’t reasonably expect her chastity to be perfectly in tact. I mean, it’s mostly there, but it suffered a ding or two. Her virginity was gone to her first boyfriend, but don’t worry it was very romantic and she still has fond memories of that special time. Not too long after that those jerks at the frat house did a number on her pride, but you can’t hold that against her. She’s a bright gal, and after that she learned how to hook up smart. There were, I think, a few other clips along the way. Nothing too serious, but after all remember it did take her forever to find you. Your little bird may not be quite as young and innocent as she would have been had she found you sooner, but there is always hope.
Some readers are under the mistaken impression that my posts about slutty women and the deleterious effects they have on society and marital/LTR stability must mean that I conduct my dating life with a stern judgmental attitude toward women and with the goal of flushing out sluts from my pool of prospects.
Nothing could be further from the truth. I will conceal my true feelings when concealing them is personally advantageous. No way no how am I getting the play I do if I decide to accost every girl I date for a spreadsheet of her sexual history. Real life doesn’t work that way. I want to disable women’s anti-slut defenses, not power them up. I don’t know about you, but when I date, my idea of a successful close is the opposite of the girl clamping her legs shut.
Now, if I am in the market for a long-term girlfriend, I will, post haste, covertly judge my dates for their sexual modesty, and screen out those women who strike me as being world class cock consumers. This, too, is to my personal advantage, for the chronic slut is a potential cheating risk, not to mention a barrel of drama queen laughs that gets tiresome sooner rather than later.
About 6 months into the relationship, two things started happening. Firstly, my feelings for her were developing rapidly. She was (and still is) the most perfect girl I have ever met. Funny, makes massive effort to always keep me smiling, intelligent, good looking, lovely family who really admire me and are happy that their little girl is dating me (our families know each other well too, by coincidence). I can honestly say it is a perfect scenario.
The second thing that started happening was my massive distaste and anger due to the past. She noticed I was getting depressed, and finally it came out in the open. She was shocked and felt terrible. Now, 6 months after the revelation, I am completely hot-cold with her… I can’t explain how I feel on it all. I am terribly depressed. I cant see a future without this girl, but I can’t see one WITH her…
3MM: Your prior sexual history DOES have an impact on your future partner.
If she frequently changes jobs, has a spotty work record, and has made a habit of quitting and getting a new job somewhere else, doing jobs that have nothing to do with her work qualifications (fucking bad boys who are terrible father material) and are detrimental to the line of work she aspires for (a lifetime stable partnership to raise a child).. she is showing the next prospective employer that her ability to make HIS company grow, and HER ability to be reliable.. are seriously in fucking doubt. HR has to spend a lot of time, effort and resources to train a new employee and bring her up to speed for the task at hand.. to become VP and grow a bigger, stronger company. So it screens effectively against the background and past actions of the applicant to see if it is worth the companies time to mold them into and effective and productive employee or cut them loose as a flight risk before the probationary period expires.
I don’t know about you, but i wouldn’t fucking hire a woman who’s had 43 different jobs in the last 2 years and is sitting in front of me at the desk saying they hope to be a lifer at my company. In the working world we value steady employment over sporadic and intermittent work period that resemble the scatter shot pattern of a shotgun round. The longer the work period, the more trustworthy that person will stick around and not jump ship to the headhunting employer that comes around offering it’s 30 pieces of silver in hopes of taking away what you thought was an asset and sunk so much time and effort into. Nobody wants to invest and train a jumpship employee.
This is why we men have such a differentiating standard between AMOUNT OF SEX vs. AMOUNT OF PARTNERS. If you had 1 prior partner and fucked him everyday for 5 years before you broke up mutually and came across me, you’d have been fucked 1,822 times! (I added in 2 days for leap years). Guess what.. NOT A SLUT. If you had 50 partners in 5 years, and fucked them only once, that would mean you had sex 1,722 times less than the lady above but guess what… YOU’RE A SLUT.