The Manosphere is here to encourage men to be men. To be alpha, and males to fulfil the proper roles that they should have. Similarly, it is to encourage women to be feminine. The sexes have different roles, which is essential that they play.
But something has concerned me lately. There are a lot of bitter, twisted comments in the Manosphere directed towards women, from both men and women.
I will not tolerate misogyny, hatred towards women, under any circumstances. Belittling women on the basis of them being inferior to men as people or encouraging violence or abuse to women in ANY form is utterly unacceptable. I will never tolerate it. Men who physically or sexually abuse women or girls should be locked away for a very long time.
But remember that women are physically weaker than men. They are on the receiving end of the vast majority of cases of physical and sexual abuse, violence etc. We as men have a critical responsibility to shield and protect them. As Krauser has said:
Men are born to lead and protect women, and those men who climb to the top of the value pyramid are better able to do so. You accept women’s submissive role as being their desire to step inside your reality and give themselves up to your direction and order. By accepting their submission you are also taking responsibility for her physical and emotional welfare. You become the man of steel and velvet. While she sits inside your reality she can blossom and grow, learning about herself and life and in return she provides you with the sex and affection that lightens the burden you have assumed. It’s a co-operative value-for-value exchange.
I’ve previously written: I’ve come across a number of blogs lately, which have the view that the Manosphere is about hating women. I don’t believe this is the case. I believe that great men love women, and make them love life. I believe that when we are fully developed as men, we can give girls a more incredible experience than anything else they’ve ever felt previously… Athol Kay is probably right – “By and large the angry men in the Manosphere are angry because the bottom line after the divorce / cheating / family court / drama is that someone they loved, didn’t love them back”.
A number of recent posts have really concerned me. A couple of examples:
1. One woman, who I won’t link to, wrote the following:
Woman: A man was convicted of raping a 14 year old girl when he was 20. She had a baby and he is the father. Now he wants visitation rights. He wants to see his child. The victim of the rape does not want the guy in her life. He pays child support. Here is the link: Link If the rapist is paying child support, should he get to see his child?
Article: The teen mother was raped by the 20-year-old family friend three years ago and says she still suffers from severe anxiety and depression. She says she is terrified at the prospect of having any dealings with her tormentor.
3MM: WTF. He raped the girl when she was a minor. He doesn’t deserve ANYTHING. She didn’t CHOOSE to have him in her life, because she was a child when she was raped. You are one sick, disturbed individual having thoughts like that.
Woman: I see your point. I think as a father paying child support, he should have the rights, but throw rape into the equation and it makes things very uncomfortable. If I were the mother, I would not accept any money from him whatsoever and not have myself or the child to have anything to do with him.
3MM: “but throw rape into the equation and it makes things very uncomfortable.” Makes things VERY UNCOMFORTABLE?! What about the poor girl who was RAPED?! A totally abhorrent crime?! Your perspective is so bizarre I can’t comprehend it in the slightest. I won’t be coming back.
2. Roosh posted a recent video where he says: The worst thing any man can do, anywhere, is ask advice from a woman. To ask a woman how to get things in life, how a man can be a man, how he can get laid, how he can start a business, is the stupidest thing he can do. A woman is not put on this earth to help man. She just doesn’t know. She doesn’t know the male experience. She knows how to look pretty, how to push papers in an office and menial tasks, how to look good, how to fuck, but in terms of helping me get what they want in life, they cannot give this advice.
3MM: Roosh, completely disagree on this one with you. I had a massive leg up in my career because of a powerful, talented, successful woman who is focused on giving young people a head start. She remains one of the most skilful, talented people I have ever met. It sucks and is unbelievably you apparently haven’t met a woman like that before!
Alf replied: The first poster is a dyke troll. This is a bullseye post. Women are dumb animals. It’s just the way they are. But I also should add that many men always do listen to the advice of women, so how does one know the fellow man you are speaking to is simply echoing the useless advice of a female?
3MM: Alf said “The first poster is a dyke troll.” You can go to my blog http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com and read over a hundred posts I’ve written. The only troll here is you.
“This is a bullseye post. Women are dumb animals. It’s just the way they are.” Your misogyny is pathetic. Your utter hatred of women will continue to ensure you never get any.
Men, love and respect women. Feel free to contact me if you have reasons why you love women.